2010 m. balandžio 25 d., sekmadienis

Psychology of Conflict




Conflict is a state of opposition, disagreement or incompatibility between two or more people or groups of people, which is sometimes characterized by physical violence. In other words - a clash of interests, values, actions or directions often sparks a conflict.
There are many different kinds of conflicts, for instance: intrapersonal, interpersonal, emotional, group, ideological, economic, military and many more.

Psychological studies are more likely to research emotional conflicts. Emotional conflict is the presence in the subconscious of different and opposing emotions relating to a situation that has recently taken place or is in the process of being unfolded, accompanied at times by a physical discomfort and in particular by tension headaches. Situations which cause emotional conflict can be everyday occurrences which might seem at the time unimportant.
Psychologically, a conflict exists when the reduction of one motivating stimulus involves an increase in another, so that a new adjustment is demanded. The word is applicable from the instant that the clash occurs. Even when we say that there is a potential conflict we are implying that there is already a conflict of directions even though a clash may not yet have occurred. For example:
  • Approach - approach conflict: a choice must be made between two attractive goals. The problem is that you can choose just one of the two goals.
  • Avoidance - avoidance conflict: a choice must be made between two unattractive goals.
  • Approach - avoidance conflict: a choice must be made about whether to pursue a single goal that has both attractive and unattractive aspects.
The basic drawback of conflicts is that they can sometimes result in physical discomfort or pain, often in the form of tension headaches. Furthermore, person who is susceptible to conflicting situations is more likely to feel miserable, unhappy and disgruntled for most of a time. Also that type of a person may lose friends or close people because of his arrogant personality.

Despite the fact that there are many negative things about conflict, still there are some benefits. Dealing with conflicts may increase person's self-confidence, self-control and may teach to stay classy in intense situations. Also the more practice we get, the more we will be able to analyze every step, every emotion and improve our charisma and ability to communicate.

In conclusion, conflicts are very hard to avoid. No matter what type of conflict person is dealing with, inner or outside, it can bring a lot of suffering into person's life. Mastering the art of conflict management can last more than we aspect and no matter how difficult it may seem, dealing with conflicts makes us only more confident and controlled.